So far I'm finding that one of the worst things about cancer is telling family and friends that you have it.
Jul 28, 2009
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I know; you feel like you want to spare them the shock. And then you have to reassure them that you're taking care of it.
- m9m, Crone of FriendFeed
Exactly! I have found that having a positive attitude really helps others cope.
- Michael McKean
Heh.. with FAQ!
- Michael McKean
Michael, a friend who had cancer asked one friend to be the go-to for updates, news, well wishes, etc., because it really is exhausting answering everyone's questions, hearing their concerns, soothing them and yourself (not that these things aren't done out of love and concern). Before you're into your treatment, you might want to talk about this w/ a friend or family member who might fill this role for you.
- Ayşe E.
That's an excellent idea since I have no idea how I'll be feeling in the coming weeks and months. Thanks!
- Michael McKean
My husband just went through treatment for leukemia, and he blogged his way through the experience. Some days he couldn't do it, but when he did it was wonderful for everyone involved. It was theraputic for him and a great way to keep those at a distance informed. And it kept me from having to update people constantly. And good luck with everything. I know it won't be easy, but you have a lot of positive thoughts with you. Hold on to them.
- Jen (SquirrelGirl)
I've been telling everyone to go to Twitter or FF if they want updates. It makes it easy to let people know what's up quickly.
- Michael McKean
I am sorry that you are going through this
- RAPatton
Don't be! :) Life has its ups and downs. I thank God that I am alive. I have a new appreciation for my own life and the lives of others. And all of you have helped out tremendously!
- Michael McKean
You are an inspiration.
- Mona Nomura
Oh man, you are my hero!!
- Adrian
:-( I'm sorry, Michael... and I can imagine how hard that would be. Cancer is scary stuff, and people say such thoughtless things.
- Ordinarybug Heather
I try to overlook what people say... I can understand to a certain point. My main concern is making people feel comfortable.
- Michael McKean