"I know the feeling. I get the same way. I guess we all do. And as you say it seems like most of us don't know how to relax and spend time alone, much less appreciate it. Don't let the gloom get you down. I always say that the gloom is just there to wake me up and show me something is wrong with my life that I have to fix. Embrace it and you will see soemthing positive come out of it. You are on track with the bath and candles. Now you are giving me the same idea! lol Thanks...and tomorrow will be a brighter day ; )" - Adriana